More often than not we have different preferences to our partner. Knowing that’s OK is one thing, showing it is another. If your partner has different preferences, talking through and seeing if you can negotiate or compromise may be really helpful; alternating turns in what you like, or combining fantasies are a few options. Remember; we are all entitled to our likes and dislikes, especially in an area as personal as sexual satisfaction. The other side of that coin is that your partner is too.