Sex is a journey

If you treat sex as a discovery of yourself and your partner you can you can dive into a layer of unknown intimacy previously veiled by the goal of orgasms! We often think that climaxing is the holy grail, however when we take orgasms off the table, anxiety can decrease and pleasure can increase. If the objective is to enjoy yourself rather than reaching a crescendo, you can begin to uncover aspects of yourself that were shrouded by performance.